GIMME A BREAK

Excerpts From the article GIMME A BREAK, in the Senior Sentry, May 2008 issue

Caring for a person with dementia is a particularly emotional and tiring job. Even the most dedicated and loving caregiver can experience burnout and the desire to have a break. Respite care can help. It can last a few hours or a few days and can be restorative if it provides an opportunity for renewal.

Respite care is not just for caregivers. Individuals with dementia and other conditions may want the opportunity to meet other people, socialize and spend time in a safe and supportive environment.

WHAT KINDS OF CARE ARE AVAILABLE?
Care can be provided in the home, in an Adult Day Care Center, and by friends and family. Residential care is another option.

HOW DO I CHOOSE RESPITE CARE SERVICES?
In order for a caregiver to feel comfortable leaving a loved one in care, he or she needs to select the right service. Meet the person who will be providing the care. Make sure that person is experienced in Alzheimer care. Visit the facility if it is not your home. Ask for references and be sure to research terms and costs. You may want to make an unannounced visit to get a general sense of the facility.

PREPARING YOURSELF
Some caregivers are burdened with a sense of guilt and failure if they seek respite care. It is important to remember that respite care helps both the provider and the person receiving care.

PREPARING THE PROVIDER
You will want to share information about the individual with the care provider. Information about the individual's likes and dislikes, his/her level of communication, personal habits and favorite hobbies are helpful. Any routines or medication needs are vital to share.

PREPARING THE PERSON WITH DEMENTIA
Some individuals will welcome a new face while others may balk. Some can understand while some may be hesitant. Even if the person in your care resists, it's important to get the respite and relief from the stress of caregiving. Some people may wish to stay the first few times someone visits. Don't give up! The first visits may be difficult, but the long-term rewards are worth it.

Additional resources: www.alz.org

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THE RESPITE CARE PROGRAM offers an opportunity to purchase respite services from an approved community services provider for the individual with Alzheimer’s, or the option of receiving an assessment of services needed and the development of a short-term care plan. The program offers funding for respite services that include, but are not limited to: Adult Day Care, Home Health Aide, Homemaker, Companion, Skilled Nursing Care or short term nursing home care. Funds may be used for daytime or overnight respite. The individual with Alzheimer's or dementia must meet eligibility requirements and 20% co-payment is required.

For more information or forms to apply: www.seniorresourcesec.org/caregivers or call (860) 887-3561